Why sex? Sex is an intercourse between a husband and a wife to achieve orgasm for multiplication (work) or for pleasure. It is ordained of God, because He instructed in the holy book that man should go and multiply. I also know it’s for pleasure because Paul in one of the epistles instructed that, neither the husband nor the wife should deprive each other of it except when they are fasting or waiting on God. Sex outside multiplication or pleasure and not within the marriage boundary is an abuse.
Sex is a factor that cuts across all races, cultures or tribes. It is a tool for multiplication and for pleasure. Anyone can relate with its goals. Life is about impartation and also for pleasure. It is a common ground for all cultures and little wonder it has become a pivot on which most brands rotates. Nowadays, products and services are crafted in such a way as to arouse emotions through consistent interactions and literally take customers to the peak of pleasure for repeated patronage.
Let’s talk about the abuse; there are two major ones and these are sex outside marriage and self-same sex. The ulterior motives of these abuses are to destroy marriages and wreck homes. Sex is good but outside of God’s plan for its use, its evil! A lady shared an experience with me yesterday about how she was raped by a trusted friend in his office. She needed someone to confide in while she was having issues in her relationship with her husband. She felt she could talk to her man friend and he took undue advantage of her. Her husband later got to know about it and it has never been the same again in her home. She has learnt her lessons in a very hard way. Why would someone decide to destroy another man’s home just because of sex? Or why would another woman destroy another woman’s home just because of sex? I have heard a man saying that, marriage with a woman is not for him anymore. He would rather remain gay. The way blood is to life, the same way trust is to marriage. Sex abuse destroys trust in a relationship.
Sex can make you and sex can also unmake you if you lack discipline and wrongly use it. There are consequences that go with sex abuse; you lose favor with God and men when you are caught in the act, you will become untrustworthy, and you will lack peace of mind. Take charge of your life today and stop being a slave to your lust or passion for sex.
